Why do we need a new resolution that can make us a better person and live a happy life

Raja Muhammad Mustansar Javaid
5 min readDec 31, 2021


Life is a journey and becoming better every day is the goal.

Today last few moments left to welcome the new year 2022 and I am sitting at my bed and doing self-accountability about me and I have many things inside my mind but the main thing is “ why I need to do improve myself to become a person and live a peaceful life “ which I always dream.

Most people around the world doing the same thing as me and trying to make a new resolution for New Year.

If you are curious to know about a Muslim perspective and also my New year’s resolutions which i have and want to achieve it then you just need to read my previous article.

Today I would like to talk and share some of my food for thought about self-improvement each new day which is most important than New year’s resolution because we do not need to wait for the new year to improve ourselves.

If you just improve yourself by 1% each day you can reach the success you seek.

Let start our self-accountability journey together and try to find answers and also get positive results.

Life is a journey of constant growth. Each new day is an opportunity to improve yourself, overcome plateaus, and be a better person.

life is a journey, not a race.

One of the best things in life is to see ourselves improve.

WHY do we want to become a better person?

Congratulations! By asking this question, we have already succeeded in making the first step towards becoming a better person. If we are able to come up with solid reasons, it will translate into a ‘passion’ that will sustain us when the going gets tough, but if we are not able to contrive excellent reasons before starting out, our ‘passion’ will fizzle out very quickly after our first spate of failures.

The next one of the best ways to keep growing as a person is by focusing on self-improvement, and doing more for yourself regularly. It’s easy to get buried in minutiae. Deliberate daily focus on any specific task makes sure it doesn’t get lost in the shuffle. This might mean taking steps towards reaching a goal. Or simply add a few things into our day that make us feel excellent, such as reading more often or learning something new.

“While we may feel excellent after an achievement, the feeling isn’t sustainable. It’s important to always be learning and growing in life for happiness that’s lasting.”

Once it’s become a habit, it’ll keep us from ever feeling stuck or bored, since we’ll always have an eye out for new and exciting ways to grow. And it doesn’t even matter what our goals are, as long as they’re moving us in a positive direction.

“Every day Just A Little”

Every day I use this formula to improve myself. Set the goal of being a little bit better today than we were yesterday. Make the commitment to be better each day by having better thoughts, making better choices, and taking better actions. The better person we are, the better people, life situations, and opportunities we will attract into our life.

Most importantly love ourselves and love others. It will come back to us multiple times.

If you live long enough, you’ll make mistakes. But if you learn from them, you’ll be a better person. It’s how you handle adversity, not how it affects you. The main thing is never quit, never quit, never quit.

James j . Clinton

Final thoughts:

Most people like to believe it’s genetics, luck, or something they can’t control because then they don’t feel as bad. But in reality, it comes down to habits. Those who want to become better person practice a different set of habits than everyone else.

“Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.” Albert Einstein

Life is a journey, we all have a different path, all we have to do is do our best, and if we failed it’s okay, learn from it, work harder and improve ourselves.

Always remember that “ Success always has a price. Find out what it is. Dream big and start small by taking the leap of faith”.

I hope everything will be better tomorrow.

Be patient with yourself. And Keep learning!!

I will be calmer, I will spread love as long as I can, I will live a spiritual life, I would do what I please no matter what and I would prove my theories.

Always start your day with renewing your intention that everything you do for yourself and your community, whether it be your acts of worship or daily chores. It all has to be merely for the sake of Allah (SWT) and Also, I ask Allah (SWT) to make my work dedicated only to him and forgiveness from Allah (SWT), if I have got anything wrong. It is He who is the hearing, the knowing.

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Raja Muhammad Mustansar Javaid

"Versatile Wordsmith | IT Solutions Strategist | Motorcycle Voyager | Multilingual Enthusiast". I’m so deep even the ocean gets jealous